Beginner Strap-on Harness Kit
Everything You Need to Get Started
No guesswork, no mismatched parts — just a complete kit that works right out of the box. The Beginner Strap-On Harness Kit pairs a soft, adjustable neoprene harness with a poseable silicone toy, so your first experience is comfortable, easy, and actually fun.
What's Included
- Adjustable neoprene harness — soft, flexible, and moves with your body
- Poseable silicone toy — bend it to the angle you want; suction cup base for hands-free play
- 2 O-rings — for a secure, compatible fit
- Foam stabilizer — improves control and reduces shifting
- Bonus bullet vibe — included while supplies last (harness has a built-in vibe pocket)
Why This Kit Works
Comfortable from the first wear. Neoprene is soft and forgiving — it adjusts to your body instead of fighting it. No digging in, no constant readjusting.
Fits your body, not a size chart. Fully adjustable straps mean a secure fit without guessing. One size works for most bodies.
Easy to control. The poseable silicone holds whatever angle you set it to, which makes everything feel more natural and less awkward.
Built for vibration. The harness has a built-in bullet pocket — and right now, a bonus bullet vibe is in the box while supplies last.
Versatile by design. The suction cup base lets you use the toy with or without the harness — more options, no extra purchases.
Frequently Asked Questions
What's included in the kit?
An adjustable neoprene harness, two O-rings, a foam stabilizer, a poseable silicone toy with suction cup base, and a bonus bullet vibe while supplies last — everything matched to work together.
Why buy a kit instead of separate pieces?
No guessing on O-ring fit, no mismatched sizing, one decision instead of three. The #1 beginner mistake is buying pieces that don't work together — a kit eliminates that entirely. Here's the honest kit vs. separates breakdown.
Is this a good first strap-on?
It's built to be exactly that — easy to set up, comfortable to wear, and not intimidating when you open the box. Our first strap-on guide covers everything else.
How does the harness fit?
Fully adjustable straps give you a secure fit without guessing sizes. The neoprene moves with you instead of digging in.
What's the toy like?
Poseable silicone with a suction cup base — bend it to the angle you want and it holds, or stick it to a surface and skip the harness entirely.
What colors does it come in?
Black, Blue, and Purple.
Do I need anything else?
Water-based lube — that's it. Everything else is in the box.
How do I clean it?
Toy: warm water and mild soap, air dry. Harness: spot treat, air dry. Bullet: wipe clean with a damp cloth. Full care guide here.
Can I upgrade later?
That's the path. Start here, then move to Shilo, Carter, the Joque, or leather as you learn what you like. Everything we make uses standard O-rings — nothing you buy today becomes obsolete.
Shipping is always discreet. Items are shipped in polybags or blank brown or white cardboard boxes. We ship internationally to many countries, with duties and import taxes included at checkout (DDP). Enter your address at checkout to confirm availability and cost to your location — note that international orders are final sale and can't be returned.
Because our products are intimate, most items are final sale for hygiene reasons. A limited selection of unopened, non-intimate items may be returned for store credit within 7 days — see our return policy. Damaged or defective? Contact us within 24 hours and we'll make it right.
