Find Your Harness
A harness holds a dildo in place so you can move the way you want to. Three of ours, three different priorities. All take any standard 1.5–2" O-ring dildo, ours included.
Which one is you?
| If this is you | Get |
|---|---|
| First harness, or testing whether this is your thing |
Explorer Neoprene, vegan, forgiving to adjust, machine washable — and the only one with a pleasure pocket for a bullet vibe. |
| You want the one you will still own in a decade |
Signature Leather Handmade in small batches, black hardware, in Black, Purple or Turquoise. Breaks in like a good boot. |
| All-day wear, maximum discretion |
Joque by SpareParts Wears like underwear. Two-ply moisture-wicking, machine washable. |
| A waist outside the usual ranges |
Joque Size A fits 20–50". Size B fits 35–65". |
| You would rather it was all worked out for you |
Strap-on sets Toy, O-ring and harness matched so they fit together out of the box. |
Three checks that decide whether the fit is right
The base sits flat against your body, so thrust goes into you rather than into the straps. Snug, not strangling — you should be able to slide a finger under. No drift: if you are re-centring it mid-session, it is too loose.
Sizing
Measure your waist where the harness will actually sit, not where your jeans sit. The Signature Leather and Explorer adjust to most bodies. Between adjustments, snugger is the right call — straps loosen with enthusiasm, they do not tighten themselves.
Full detail: how to choose a strap-on harness · your first strap-on · size chart
Everything carries our One-Year Maker's Warranty. Stuck between two? Send the question — anonymously if you like.