Gender-Affirming Products for Trans Men and Trans Masc People: A Complete Guide
If you're trans masc, non-binary, or somewhere on that spectrum, you already know that the right gear can make a real difference in how you feel in your body. Gender-affirming products aren't just about sex — they're about moving through the world feeling more like yourself. This guide covers the main categories of gender-affirming products for trans men and trans masc people.
Packers
A packer is a soft prosthetic designed to be worn in your underwear to create a realistic bulge. For many trans masc people, packing is one of the most accessible and immediate forms of gender affirmation. Packers come in a range of sizes and skin tones, from small soft packers designed for all-day comfort to pack-and-play options that can also be used for sex. Our beginner packer guide can help you figure out what type makes sense for you.
Stand-to-Pee (STP) Devices
STP devices allow trans masc people to urinate while standing — a significant quality-of-life change for many people, particularly when navigating gendered bathrooms. The Sam STP is designed specifically for trans masc anatomy and is a popular first option. Using an STP takes practice, but most people get comfortable within a few weeks.
Pumps for Bottom Growth
Trans masc pumps use gentle suction to increase blood flow to the bottom growth area, which can encourage growth over time and temporarily increase size and sensitivity. The NYTC pump line is designed specifically for trans masc anatomy and comes in a range of cylinder sizes to accommodate different amounts of growth.
Pack-and-Play Dildos
Pack-and-play dildos are firm enough to be used for penetration while still being soft enough to wear comfortably in underwear. NYTC's Shilo and Carter are the most popular pack-and-play options in the trans masc community, available in multiple skin tones and made from body-safe platinum-cured silicone.
Strap-On Harnesses
A strap-on harness holds a dildo in position for penetrative sex. Harnesses come in several styles: leather for durability and adjustability, neoprene for beginner-friendliness and easy care, and underwear-style for the most discreet option that feels like regular briefs.
How to Choose What's Right for You
The best gender-affirming products are the ones that feel right for your body and your life. Consider what aspect of your day-to-day experience matters most to you right now, where you are in your transition, and whether you want products for daily wear, for sex, or both. Try our packer quiz or pump quiz, or come to office hours and ask Chelsea directly — she's been answering these questions for 14 years.
