FTM Packing Guide: How to Pack for the First Time
To pack for the first time: choose a soft silicone packer sized smaller than you think, set it in snug underwear or a packing pouch with the shaft angled slightly down or to one side, and wear it for a few hours at home before committing to a full day. That's the whole method — the rest is finding the position that looks and feels natural for your body. Here's what packing is, what you need, and how to make it part of your routine.
What is packing?
Packing means wearing a soft silicone prosthetic in your underwear to create the shape, weight, and bulge of a penis. For many trans masc and non-binary folks, packing is a significant part of feeling at home in their body — whether they’re out at work, at the gym, at the beach, or anywhere else.
The effect is physical, but the impact is often emotional. Many people describe the first time they packed as a moment of genuine gender euphoria: finally looking in the mirror and seeing a body that felt like theirs.
What do I need to get started?
You need two things: a packer and something to hold it in place.
Choosing a packer: Packers come in different sizes and skin tones. NYTC makes several options:
- Archer — A soft, realistic silicone packer available in 4 inch ($39.99) and 5 inch ($39.99). Available in Caramel, Hazelnut, and Chocolate.
- Pierre — An uncircumcised packer, hand-painted for a realistic multi-tonal finish. $49.99.
- Jack — A 2-in-1 packer and stroker. Pack during the day, use as a stroker when you’re ready. $59.99.
Holding it in place: You can use a packing pouch, packing underwear, or a jockstrap with a pouch. NYTC’s Packer Pouch with magnetic closure makes it easy to take on and off without removing your underwear.
How do I position it?
Tuck the packer into your underwear or pouch with the shaft pointing slightly to one side or down. The goal is a natural-looking shape through clothing, not necessarily a specific position. Play with what feels natural and comfortable for your body.
How long can I wear it?
Most people can wear a packer comfortably all day. Start with a few hours to see how it feels for your body and choose the right position. Soft platinum silicone is body-safe and non-porous, so it’s safe for extended wear.
Clean it regularly
Clean your packer with warm water and mild soap after use. Air dry completely before storing. Silicone can be boiled for full sterilization.
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Questions we hear
What size packer should I start with? Smaller than you think. A compact packer sits naturally under clothing; oversized ones shift, print, and need constant managing. The Archer and Pierre are both sized for everyday realism.
How do I keep a packer in place? Snug underwear works for many people; a packing strap or pouch keeps everything exactly where you put it, all day.
Can I sleep or swim in a packer? You can, though most people give their skin a break at night. For swimming, snug swimwear with a secure pouch is the difference between confidence and chasing your packer down a water slide.
How do I wash a packer? Warm water and mild soap after wear, air dry fully. Silicone is non-porous and easy to care for — full care steps in our cleaning guide.
Keep learning: Choosing your first packer · Pack-and-play vs everyday · What is an STP?
