Shilo Strap-on Set
You don’t wait for the moment. You set it up.
The Shilo Strap-On Set is the complete strap-on kit built around New York Toy Collective’s most iconic silicone dildo — paired with a harness that fits. No guessing. No mismatch. Just the full setup, guaranteed to work together.
Shilo is the original bendable, posable silicone strap-on dildo — 14 years in, still the one people come back to. As seen in Ruby Rose’s Break Free — over 55 million views. Reviewed by Autostraddle. Trusted for over a decade.
Choose your harness — leather, fabric, or neoprene. All work. Each feels different on your body.
- Explorer — easy, beginner-friendly neoprene
- Leather — bold, handcrafted, built to last
- Joque — all-night comfort, wear it all day
Product Details
- Posable & bendable silicone dildo — holds exactly how you set it, moves with your body
- Put it on before — ready when the moment starts, no stepping away
- Harness compatible — fits any standard O-ring harness
- Handmade, body-safe silicone — small batch, never mass-produced
- Dual-density construction — firm where it matters, natural feel
- Includes removable suction cup
- Complete strap-on set — dildo + harness, guaranteed compatible
- Always use with lube
What is Shilo and why is it considered an icon?
Shilo is New York Toy Collective’s signature product and best seller since 2012 — the original bendable, posable silicone strap-on.
It was featured in Ruby Rose’s short film Break Free and reviewed by Autostraddle as one of the best.
Over 14 years later, it’s still the one people come back to.
Handmade in small batches with dual-density silicone and a proprietary posable core, Shilo is designed to be worn under clothing so you’re ready when the moment comes — no stopping, no interruptions.
What makes Shilo different from other strap-ons?
Most strap-ons are rigid and mass-produced.
Shilo is handmade in small batches using dual-density silicone with a proprietary posable core — meaning it bends, holds its position, and moves naturally with your body.
It’s designed to be worn before anything starts, so you don’t have to stop or reset the moment.
How do you use Shilo?
Shilo is worn with a harness.
Put it on as you get dressed — position it how you want, secure it in your harness, and wear it under clothing.
When the moment comes, you’re already ready.
No stopping. No adjusting. No interruption.
Can Shilo be worn under clothing?
Yes — Shilo is designed to be worn discreetly under clothing.
We recommend wearing it when you know you’re going to use it. If you’re looking for something to wear all day, a packer may be a better fit.
Shilo is made for play — worn in, ready when it matters.
Is Shilo harness compatible?
Yes — Shilo works with any standard O-ring harness (1.5–2" openings).
All harnesses included in the Shilo Set are fully compatible and selected to work seamlessly with the product.
What’s included in the Shilo Strap-On Set?
The set includes Shilo and your choice of harness — leather, fabric, or neoprene — all selected for compatibility and fit.
Each option works with Shilo out of the box. No guessing, no mismatch.
What’s the difference between harness options?
Each harness works with Shilo — the difference is how it feels and functions:
EASY: Explorer (neoprene) — lightweight, easy to wear, and the most accessible option. Includes a pleasure pocket for a bullet vibe, multiple O-rings for different toys, and a storage case.
BOLD: Leather Harness — premium feel with structured support. Available in black, purple, and teal with black hardware and three metal O-rings.
All-night comfort- Joque by SpareParts (Flexible Nylon) — best for extended wear and pack-and-play. Adjustable, discreet, and designed for comfort. Includes four bullet vibe pockets and a harness cover to prevent contact with clothing like zippers.
All options are fully compatible — it comes down to preference.
Which harness should I choose?
- Choose Explorer for a lightweight, entry-level option
- Choose Leather for structure and a more elevated look
- Choose Joque for maximum comfort and extended wear
What is a bendable or posable strap-on?
A bendable, posable strap-on is designed to move and hold its position.
Shilo features a proprietary internal core that allows it to stay exactly where you set it while moving naturally with your body.
What is dual-density silicone and why does it matter?
Dual-density silicone combines a firm inner core with a softer outer layer.
Shilo is structured to provide stability while maintaining a more natural feel.
Is Shilo body-safe?
Yes — Shilo is made from 100% body-safe silicone.
It is non-porous, phthalate-free, and hypoallergenic.
What lubricant should I use with Shilo?
Use water-based lubricant.
Silicone-based lubricants can degrade silicone over time. If using silicone-based lube, use a condom.
Can Shilo be used for anal play?
Yes.
For anal use, we recommend using a condom and silicone-based lubricant for added comfort.
Can Shilo be shared with a partner?
Yes — silicone is non-porous and can be fully sanitized.
Use a condom or wash thoroughly with warm, soapy water between uses.
How do I clean and care for Shilo and the harness?
Shilo:
Wash with warm water and mild soap after each use. Rinse thoroughly and air dry.
Explorer & Leather Harness:
Spot clean only.
Joque Harness:
Machine washable. Air dry.
What colors does Shilo come in?
Shilo is available in Cashew, Caramel, Hazelnut, Chocolate, Midnight Purple, and Blue & Black — designed to reflect a range of skin tones and personal expression.
What’s the difference between Shilo and Carter?
Shilo and Carter share the same construction — handmade dual-density silicone, a proprietary posable core, and full harness compatibility.
Carter offers more girth.
Same design, more presence.
Shipping is always discreet. Items are shipped in polybags or blank brown or white cardboard boxes. We currently do not offer internationally shipping.
Due to the intimate nature of our products all sales are final.